We all have aspirational experiences and dreams of what we would do if only X. In the past, this X for me had a lot to do with wanting to “get ahead”. I never quite defined what that meant. It was some vague notion of fast career advancement which actually came back to achievement and financial success. As I’ve made the transition to the way that I am living today, I’ve sung the praises of creating a motivational list of adventures. I’ve also explored experiences instead of things as a good happiness return on investment. If living life outside the maze is a journey, my list of adventures is the scenery along the way. It will change over time with some things happily falling off the list and others entering. I have no illusions about “finishing it”. After all, if life itself is indeed this evolving adventure, finishing it has dark implications. So without further ado, I’d like to share some of the meandering adventures added to the list recently. Some are new and some are just newly added:
Some Recent Additions to My List:
An 18 Month Brewing Experiment: “To alcohol, the cause of and solution to all of life’s problems. -Homer Simpson. Hear about my attempt at a beer masterpiece, how beer saves you from the plague, and what I have in common with George Washington and Thomas Jefferson.
Harry Potter Music School Music is a big part of my life and something powerful to me. See what happens when I join a bunch of like minded songwriters for a Harry Potter like retreat at a castle in the woods.
Hockey Eh! Read what happens when I join a hockey team with no experience or real skills of any kind.
I will periodically be updating the list of adventures randomly and without warning. So check out the “Don’t Call It A Bucket List” tab every once in awhile if interested in the blunders and meanderings of yours truly.
Doing Adventures Takes Effort.
I have many more items on my list in the works right now. However, these things take time for planning and scheduling. If I want to learn how to sail for example, I need to do my research and build some relationships. Then I need to find the season and time window that works. I could pay more and buy a manufactured experience but that is not exactly what I’m looking for. Sometimes when you chop your own wood it warms you twice. However, after the preparation, actually doing these things often does not take loads of time or obscene amounts of cash.
Is Cost a Barrier to Adventures?
Interestingly, most of the things that many people have on their own lists can be accomplished in less than a week and at a cost of $1000 or less. In fact, I proved this with a little googling of my own of the top ten things that people put on their bucket lists. I also added a few other common ones that I hear often:
I will grant that a house or a wedding take preparation both financial and otherwise but are these even bucket list items or just life? What about most of the rest of the list? I think that many of us think that some day we will write that novel, get six pack abs, or finally learn to play the cello. I think it is important to realize that those things are free to do and only take your time and prioritization. You may always earn money but your time is limited. I guess my message here is that you may have more than you think that you need to start your list now. After a point, you may also not get much more of what you need by stacking up more dollars. Sometimes it’s better to chop your own wood.
I’d love to hear from you on any of your list items. Feel free to share in the comments. Also, I will take any help that I can get. If you have some ideas or a connection that could help and would like to join me in doing some of the things on the list reach out. I would be most grateful.
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Haha fun post thanks. Are you skydiving in that photo? and why such fancy shoes?
Not skydiving just on a ride on a cliff top. You are the 2nd person this week to call me out on my shoes. Rather than get rid of my old dress shoes, I often wear them for non-dress occasions like camping or riding a crazy ride on a mountain top. Why not? Haha
Great fun list. Seeing the northern light would be really amazing. I’m not sure if I can ever go skydiving or jump off the bridge. Travel around the world would be pretty amazing. One thing I’d love to do is to set foot on Antarctica.
It’s funny, growing up in Minnesota I saw the Northern Lights maybe a dozen times and now I find out it is a super popular bucket list item!? Your Antarctica adventure sounds next level. I like it 😉
I think at some point I’d like to do some international travel. To that end, I’m finally getting a passport application ready. (Yes, I really travel that little.) That’ll definitely take more than a week of preparation. I’ll over-research hotels and price compare and probably watch for good fares.
Other than that, I’m pretty happy with my life as-is. Which speaks to a lack of imagination and a certain timidity, I suppose, but it works for me.
I don’t know about lack of imagination or timidity, you may just be super Zen 😉 Best of luck with the passport and travel plans. Travel has been a great teacher for me and I always suggest leaving some room for Spontaneity and discovery.
My favorite things on your list are all the free ones (does that mean I get a prize?!)
But seriously, the best adventures I’ve had have consisted of trekking through the wilderness, miles away from civilization, with just a fierce mountain ahead to climb. I 100% believe an epic adventure can be had for just the cost of getting to your starting destination. For instance, our biggest bucket list item right now is climbing Kilimanjaro in January. But thanks to modern travel hacking techniques, we’ve managed to slash the costs of travel drastically. In the meantime, instead of going out and spending our money on drinks and social events, we’re cracking down and getting ourselves in shape to reach that mountain. So in the process of working towards conquering this bucket list item, we’re actually saving money. I’d call that a win!
I love that you’re raising awareness that unforgettable adventure doesn’t have to mean dropping thousands of dollars. It might just mean re-framing what it means to truly “adventure.”
Elise
Yes you do win a prize. The prize is a big fat savings and investment account. Kilimanjaro sounds super fun and a little dog told me that it rises like Olympus above the serengeti.
I am glad you are not only adding to your bucket list but also measuring the actual completion of these things. So many of us regularly measure net worth and savings rate but don’t stop to measure life.
You will have to share your “less than 1-week to Six Pack Abs Workout” with us. You could probably make a fortune off that ; )
Max OOP
The secret abs workout is actually just an airbrush and photo shop. What! no not 6 minute abs 7 minute abs.
Great list! We live quite far from the Northern Lights so it’d probably cost us more than $1000 to make it work but so do so many travel experiences on our bucket list. I think it’s important to have a list of what you want to do so you don’t get lost with the daily tasks and lose track of what you want to do in the long run.
Hmmm, I don’t know. Even if you lived in New Zealand you could fly to Canada for less than $1K and see those northern lights…and that’s not even including travel hacking.
Ah I was thinking more like a flight for 2 with hotel and food for a few days to a week. I’ve been eyeing a trip for the 2 of us to Alaska for a while. We live in Northern CA. Perhaps 1000 would be enough if you only care about the Northern Lights. If you’re flying from somewhere far away (like NZ for example), I think it’s usually worth it to spend the money and stay around to really experience the local area. Just my 2 cents, I think travel and learning about new cultures are usually worth it even if it’s 5000.
As an engineer you will find sailing intuitive. For me it combines everything I love: physics, water, problem solving, uninhabited islands, rum, and friendship.
You can get through all 3 ASA courses in a week in the British Virgin Islands.
Thanks for the tip Brian, you sound like a voice of experience. It’s funny looking back now at this post about what the real barriers may be to adventure. I now look at it in a new light after Covid and am certainly excited to have the opportunity to again pursue adventures outside my house and land locked state once vaccines get out more broadly 🙂